@Myx - you are really misunderstanding the whole thread. You have no clue how things went neither why those people acted this way. Have a look again at this thread and tell me what other possibility did the admins have? You really seem to have a serious problem in regard to punishments which does not concern us at all. You truly think everything can be solved without punishments? I'd rather not talk about history there but that would be quite relevant in my opinion.
Myx says
In three people community, among zombie apocalypse, i will not "protect" the community by punishing thief, i just ask him, why he did it, and could i help him without theft, because it is a matter of survival.
Why is this even relevant? We are not in a such situation, are we? But I can also take your example though - You would try to help him, that's nice and righteous, but what if the guy did it on purpose, would do it again if such opportunity shows up? What if the thief, right after his treachery does it again? You'll try to help him until what? It's not like the punishment was given without valid reasons, without the approval of those admins who were online at that time, and neither like it was surprising and we didn't expect people to act this way. Not like if they decided to join the second gather deliberately although they knew Trademark will sign in too. If so, what would happen to your thief in a such world? I personally bet that he will die soon enough if he is ever caught by the others. Anyway, don't drift too much, you might lose the point of the comparison.
Myx says
If Trademark jumped in at the very last minute, they had no choise to leave without breaking rules, so, of course, we must ban them? Is it really right decision? Because you call it "stupid behavior"? Or maybe better give them opportunity to leave, if they don't want to play with some players? If gather have 12 people, why anybody SHOULD play, if they see some players, with whom unacceptable to play? Maybe would be better and more "respectful", as you said, ask everyone, do he accept this gather or not? Before game starts. But no, you wanna ban them, because you call it "stupid behavior", and you want "respectful" game, but you disrespect theirs desire not to play with someone. If you see a solution of this conflict only by punishment, so it's your childish behavior. Childs solve conflicts in this way. So maybe better let people leave gather, before it starts? Doesn't matter, have gather 12 people or 11, if game not started. It would be respectful to everyone. But no, you make a decision to ban them, without trying to find other ways to solve the problem. Do you really think that's smart decision? Ok, let you to make this community stronger and unified your way.
They indeed had no choice, although he joined before the gather starts, two players were missing, they yet had time to leave. Another detail you missed is that those players also join the following gather, no one is stupid and can't ignore Trademark will jump in too. Just because he was looking for a game to play. How do you defend this point then? Stupid behavior or not, we will never ban someone for being stupid or for acting stupidly - bans would flow if so. I wont go any further, you've missed the thread and there no point in talking with people who don't know the whole story.
Just to conclude, do you honestly think we ENJOY providing bans? You know, how many times we've been lenient towards people who should have been banned, get a longer duration or simply be banned forever. This thread is a proof, people complain because Trademark wasn't banned permanently. Things would have been different then but if we follow your opinion, that would mean less bans, more drama, and a worse community. Today is an example, if Trademark wasn't banned when he was caught cheating, same for EvilBot, or even those regular gather bans for a day or so. Think about it and tell me, the NSL community would have been better? Those are complaining right now about their bans duration, they don't necessarily bitch about the simple existence of the ban but more their duration.
You keep claiming that punishments aren't a solution. Oh, of course, it's not. Some people tend to change their mind, get better without any form of punishments. Some other get better and figure it out once their ban lifted, they just think about what they did and decide to not do it again. But there are also stubborn and immoral people who won't change, being banned or just warned. I can quote a few cases on the NSL to prove this. Same works in real life man. Remove the prisons, remove the police, and so forth, if you think the world will be better, you are really disillusioned. Rules are here for a very good reason and admins must apply them. Sometimes, yeah, a rule doesn't cover the situation or many factors force us to not apply it but that's only a few rare cases.
So again, punishments won't solve anything but we are definitely not in those situations.